Decide That This Holiday is Going to Be Joyful
Yes, you choose joy. You decide and then it is. Sounds too simplistic, doesn't it. But try it. You’ll be amazed at how much power you will gain just by making this one choice.
Here's why it works: when you decide that your holidays are going to be joyful, you eliminate the clutter of crazy. Instead of getting pulled in different directions, you get to assess every invitation and every event with the question "if I do this, will I feel joyful?” If you answer "no" then you turn the invitation down postpone it to the new year when you will have more time, patience, etc.
You just have to decide...and stick with your decision.
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