Finding Your Voice

OrangeDaisiesBeing a "recovering good girl" has given me an interesting perspective. While I wasn't particularly subdued at home, I was shy and quiet outside the home. And, no matter where I was, I had the need to please.

When I finally spoke up, it felt scary but good; I kept going. When I first stood up for myself with an abusive sibling (in my twenties!), it was exhausting but powerful; I kept doing it until I felt safe.

Finding your voice can take a long time because it's woven together with finding your SELF. Maybe that's why I so like the wisdom of this quote by author Shannon L. Alder:

"Putting a voice to your soul helps you to let go of the negative energy of fear and regret."

What is the Victorious Woman Project?

Founded by Annmarie Kelly, the Victorious Woman Project is a female empowerment resource containing articles, classes, books, podcasts and other tools for women over 40.